
In addition to reading together, for older children, watching movies can be a great way to learn valuable lessons. Movies present another world in a highly condensed form right before our eyes.
Of course, as parents, it is essential to choose appropriate films for underage children. Some movies are labeled as needing parental accompaniment, and this “accompaniment” does not simply mean sitting beside the child. It involves explaining any “crossing the line” scenes that may arise. We often underestimate how profoundly movies or videos can impact children.
If a child particularly enjoys heroic cartoons or films, parents need to communicate with them carefully because the effects can be both positive and negative. For example, the idea that “evil cannot triumph over good” suggests that villains are usually defeated by “heroes.” While we understand that doing bad things leads to negative consequences, we cannot overlook the fighting sequences in between. Younger children may mistakenly believe that violence can solve problems, thinking that “good people” can just use their fists against bad guys. Parents must correct this misconception immediately. It is difficult to gauge the significant impact that “heroism” can have on a child’s development. What can we learn from the characters of “heroes”? Actions of helping others, the vision of supporting the weak against the strong, and holding a sense of justice. The key difference lies in how children interpret the meaning behind the visuals, making parental guidance crucial.

I remember not long ago, my son’s school organized a movie viewing trip for Zero to Hero. Although we did not attend, we ended up watching it together at home. Initially, my son, who usually enjoys cartoons, reacted with some resistance, saying he could tell it would be boring. To be honest, I didn’t have high expectations for this movie either; it was a rare school recommendation, so I thought it couldn’t be too bad! Indeed, it turned out to be a great film! My son and I not only watched it to the end but I found myself getting a bit emotional as well. Raising children is truly not an easy task; it is filled with blood, sweat, tears, and laughter. A child’s success relies heavily on the support of their parents. How much of the meaning in the film could my 8-year-old son understand? What impact would it have on him?
The following evening, my son asked me before bed if we could watch the trailer for Zero to Hero again. I think he really liked the movie. As a result, during his weekend swimming training, he actively requested that his mom accompany him and cheer him on, and he seemed particularly motivated while swimming. It felt like my son had grown a little! It turns out that watching a film can bring him a bit of positive energy!
Watching films together not only relaxes parents but also supports children in their growth. No matter how busy we are, whether at home or in the theater, we should take some time to select and watch classic inspirational films with our children. Good movies often provide us with valuable insights, uplift our spirits, and instill positive values, cleansing our souls and becoming the nutrients that help us grow. They might even influence our future lives, helping us become better versions of ourselves.